Father of the Groom

Father of the Groom

My firstborn son is getting married this week. I’m filled with emotions: happiness, joy, relief, and can I say this without being judged… pride? As the big day approaches, memories flood my mind: I remember Aaron staring at me with his big brown eyes moments after his...
Settling for Mediocre

Settling for Mediocre

Our church is undergoing a huge renovation project. Carpet, tile, woodwork, paint, signs, bathrooms, etc. While observing the transformation, it occurred to me: we pastors hire skilled people to lay carpet, hang drywall, plumb, and much more in our church. We engage...
Getting Faked Out by Busy

Getting Faked Out by Busy

“Don’t mistake movement for achievement. It’s easy to get faked out by being busy.” (Jim Rohn) For a good chunk of my work life, I allowed movement to fake me out. As a youth pastor at a large church, my schedule was routinely packed. One day I remember calling my...