THE IMPACT OF IDENTITY, AFFECTION, & AFFIRMATION ON YOUR LEADERSHIP
A few weeks ago, on the Leading from Alignment podcast John and Jim explored Luke 3:21-22. “When all the people were being baptized, Jesus was baptized too. And as He was praying, heaven was opened, and the Holy Spirit descended on Him in bodily form like a dove. And...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT PODCAST EPISODE 241: UNDERDOG
Have you ever felt like an underdog? Like you are operating at a disadvantage? That you are unlikely to win at home, or at work, or at your walk with God, or at your God-given purpose? If so . . . welcome to the club! The Bible is full of people who felt they were...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 240: FOLLOWING GOD’S LEAD
Psalm 23 is one of the most beloved of all the Psalms. It carries fresh meaning for those of us who lead. In today’s episode, John and Jim unpack how leaders can navigate chaotic times by tuning in, listening to, and following God’s voice. Psalm 23:1-4 “The Lord is my...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 239: THE IMPACT OF IDENTITY, AFFECTION, & AFFIRMATION ON YOUR LEADERSHIP
Luke 3;21-22 says, “When all the people were being baptized, Jesus was baptized too… and a voice came from heaven: “You are My Son, whom I love; with You I am well-pleased.” Pastor, if you want to lead better, lead longer, and enjoy it more, three foundational items...
AFTER THE CONFLICT GETS RESOLVED
We have spent significant time camping out on the topic of conflict because we strongly believe that conflict resolution is a vital skill both for the individual Christian and the collective Church. If you missed any of the posts or podcasts, be sure to get caught up...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 238: ADDRESSING THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM PART 2 – COLLAPSING RELATIONAL TRIANGLES
Gossip . . . perhaps the most pervasive problem in the church today. And the lack of unity it produces weakens the witness of the Church and ultimately the reputation of Jesus. In today’s episode John and Jim tackle a subject that comes from a friend of Converge...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 237: MANAGING THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM PART 1 – MANAGING CONFLICT
Conflict . . . for most leaders, the bane of their existence. Something to be postponed instead of embraced. And yet, a leader’s unwillingness to embrace conflict is one of the most limiting factors in his or her leadership journey. In today’s episode John and Jim...
DEALING WITH THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM – MANAGING CONFLICT (PURSUING UNITY)
A few weeks ago we began addressing the topic of conflict. For a lot of people, the tendency will be “I hate conflict” so the temptation to merely scroll past posts and podcasts on this subject is real. If you are one of those people, you probably refer to yourself as...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 236 – INTERVIEW WITH JOSH SPURLOCK – PART 2
Are younger male leaders, and female leaders more emotionally aware than their older male leader counterparts? In today’s episode we welcome back our friend, Josh Spurlock for Part 2 of our conversation focusing on how the way our personal world impacts our ministry...
PODCAST EPISODE 235 – INTERVIEW WITH JOSH SPURLOCK – PART 1
In today’s episode we welcome our friend, Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online, a Faith-based counseling ministry utilizing Neuroscience-Informed Therapy providing both support and resources to ministry leaders around the world. In our conversation today we...
ADDRESSING THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM – MANAGING CONFLICT
Difficult people go to church. I wish it wasn’t true . . . but sadly, it is. Not all people who go to church are difficult. In fact, the majority are not. But those who can make life miserable for a leader. I graduated from Oral Roberts University a...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 234 – GETTING COMFORTABLE WITH SAYING NO
In Episode 233 John & Jim unpacked this idea: part of understanding the value of time is determining what and to whom we say yes or no. In today’s episode they explore how the way we value time has a lot to do with what and to whom we say yes or no. It’s...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 233 – WHAT I LEARNED ON VACATION
In today’s episode John & Jim unpack two powerful lessons John discovered on his most recent vacation. If you get your arms around these two items, they will shape your life and leadership in a profound manner. Two Big Ideas: There is never one...
GETTING COMFORTABLE WITH SAYING NO
In our post two weeks ago, I stated the following: Understanding the valuable asset of time was determined largely what and who we say yes or no to. And saying yes or no thoughtfully comes by understanding our capacity. I was having coffee a while back with a staff...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 232 – RESPONDING TO A FORCED EXIT – INTERVIEW WITH KYLE ISABELLI – PART 2
Today John & Jim welcome Kyle Isabelli back to the mic for Part 2 of their conversation on the subject, Responding to a Forced Exit. In today’s episode they explore, among other things, the stats behind the forced termination of pastors, the proper tension...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 231 – RESPONDING TO A FORCED EXIT – INTERVIEW WITH KYLE ISABELLI – PART 1
Today John & Jim welcome Kyle Isabelli to the mic for Part 1 of their conversation on the subject, Responding to a Forced Exit. In today’s episode they unpack Kyle’s forced termination, a few big lessons Kyle learned through the journey, and how to leave a...
WHAT I LEARNED ON MY VACATION
This past February, Laura and I were blessed to get away for a two-week vacation on the Atlantic Ocean. It was an incredibly relaxing time. God seems to use the ocean waves to speak to me, and this past vacation was no exception. The Lord downloaded at least...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 230 – HOW THE CHURCH IN AMERICA IS DOING – INTERVIEW WITH MIKE CLARENSAU – PART 2
Today we welcome Mike Clarensau back to the mic for Part 2 of our conversation about the current health of the Church in America. In our discussion today we explore the role of coaching in church health, and the challenge of next gen leaders’ struggle with the call of...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 229 – HOW THE CHURCH IN AMERICA IS DOING – INTERVIEW WITH MIKE CLARENSAU – PART 1
Today we welcome Mike Clarensau to the mic. As a proven strategist, Mike has helped churches and ministry organizations identify new direction or the steps necessary for greater effectiveness. In Part 1 of our conversation, Mike unpacks how the Church in America is...
LEADING FROM A FULL TANK
Over the past couple of months, we’ve been camped out on the topic of The Leader’s Well-Being. At Converge Coaching, we strongly believe our wellbeing is a matter of obedience and not simply a matter of preference. It is difficult to honor God in our assignments if...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 228 – WHEN SHEEP BITE WITH CRAIG OWENS – PART 2
Welcome to Part 2 of our conversation with Craig Owens about his newest book, When Sheep Bite. In today’s episode we unpack how to express gentleness in the face of biting sheep and why gentleness matters; how to find a “release valve” for our anger; and how to...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPSODE 227 – WHEN SHEEP BITE WITH CRAIG OWENS – PART 1
Today we bring Craig Owens back to the mic for Part 1 of our conversation around his newest book, When Sheep Bite. If you are a pastor, you have been “bitten” by more than one of those you lead. And when that happens, it can be hard to manage. In today’s episode we...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 226 – LEADING FROM A FULL TANK
Today we wrap up two months’ worth of podcasts about a leader’s well-being. We have taken the following position: Our wellbeing is a matter of obedience not a matter of preference. Today we finish the conversation by exploring what it takes to lead from a full tank....
THE UBIQUITOUS NEED FOR FRIENDSHIP
For leaders, friendships are difficult to find and maintain. Yet from the beginning of the Book, God put it out there for us: “It is not good for the man to be alone.” Genesis 2:18. Jesus modeled it, too. In today’s post, Jaime Hlavin answers these two questions: “Why...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 225 – THE UBIQUITOUS NEED FOR FRIENDSHIP
We’ve been talking almost exclusively in 2024 about whole person wellbeing. We’ve talked about working on our wellbeing as a matter of obedience vs. preference; about developing a responsible relationship with ourself; about a new healthy rhythm: our capacity and the...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 224- CAPACITY VS. DEMAND: A FRESH LOOK AT RHYTHMS
We’ve rapped about work/rest rhythms multiple times over the 4+ years we’ve been podcasting together. We’ve unpacked four of them in the past: Daily – Genesis 1:5 – hard edges on workday. Weekly – Genesis 2:2 – a weekly pause. Sabbath Quarterly – reset every 90 days....
CAPACITY VS. DEMAND: A FRESH LOOK AT RHYTHMS
If you’ve followed us here at Converge Coaching for a bit, then you know how we feel about work/rest rhythms. The concept is foundational for so much of what we do to help you stay healthy in leadership. You can probably rattle them off faster than I can list them:...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 223- DEVELOPING A RESPONSIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF
In today’s episode we continue our series of podcasts on a leader’s well-being. We unpack three important questions: What does it mean to be properly related to yourself? How do you get there? And . . . why does it matter? Our capacity to be properly related to those...
LEADING FROM ALIGNMENT EPISODE 222- INTERVIEW WITH DAVE BARRINGER- PART 2
In today’s episode we continue our compelling conversation with Dave Barringer about the epidemic of depression in today’s culture. In today’s pod Dave gives us pro tips on how to get and stay mentally/emotionally healthy. In chapter 1 of your book, you state that...
DEVELOPING A RESPONSIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF
Today Jaime Hlavin kicks off a series of posts about mental and emotional health. Our inner life dictates what our outer life can handle responsibly. It’s our hope that these posts will help you build a stronger inner life. Enjoy ~ John It is not uncommon that your...