In this episode of Leading from Alignment, we talk with Aaron Hlavin, Michigan Assemblies of God Network Superintendent, about what helps pastors thrive, and what holds them back. We explore encouraging trends like spiritual hunger and authentic discipleship, alongside challenges such as criticism, burnout, and navigating complex issues. Aaron shares key burnout warning signs and highlights the need for identity beyond ministry, healthy boundaries, rest, and support systems, along with practical ways leaders can better care for pastor well-being.

What trends are you seeing across the country with pastors and churches that are encouraging—and what concerns you?

1. Spiritual formation and authentic faith.
2. An ongoing shift from performance-driven ministry to spiritual formation.
3. Increased collaboration between denominational groups.

Where do you see pastors being hardest on themselves—and how does that impact their leadership over time?

1. Increased criticism and negativity from church members.
2. Isolation that lends to burnout.
3. Many pastors struggle with negative internal messaging, which affects their leadership.

What are some early warning signs that a pastor is heading toward burnout or diminished effectiveness?

1. Emotional numbness.
2. Unclear thinking.
3. Criticism.
4. Withdrawal from meaningful relationships

What separates pastors who lead with longevity/joy from those who struggle?

1. Building a life separate from ministry.
2. Nurturing a settled sense of identity outside the pastoral role.
3. Creating time for rest, relationships, and laughter.

How can denominations or networks better support pastors in caring for their spiritual, mental/emotional, and relational health?

1. Normalizing mental health support.
2. Access coaching and counseling.

If you could sit down with every pastor in your region for five minutes, what would you say to them about staying healthy and fruitful for the long haul?

1. Prioritize soul care.
2. Hold your role with an open hand.
3. Maintain life-giving friendships.
4. Give yourself permission to be human.